Sarah sat drawing pictures while I helped Kate with her homework. "See mommy, that's you" she said pointing to an amoeba-like doodle with one eye. I declared the likeness amazing. "This is my baby" she went on to explain. Indeed, the shape next to me was much smaller. "This one is me..." Jeremiah had wandered into the kitchen and asked who her baby's daddy was. She scrunched up her face and looked at the drawing. It clearly contained no figure for the daddy. "I don't know" she confessed.